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(God's) "Luv is a Verb" (Romans 5:1-11)

3/13/2014

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This is an unused sermon manuscript for a sermon I was working on about God's love, based on Romans 5:1-11.

In the early '90s, I was in high school, searching to connect my Christian beliefs with my interest in music. DC Talk was one group that some of my Christian friends found interesting. I bought their new CD, "Free At Last," and began listening to it. Although known for a couple of songs that became, at the time, fairly large hits, the CD began with an important song that reminded us that "luv is a verb."

This was an important realization for me. As a high school student, it seemed like "love was in the air" as I began to meet girls and sort out my feelings for some of them. Of course, relationships can be up and down, and any feelings of "love" were sentimental and emotional. And they were just that--feelings.

But "love," as taught in church, wasn't much better. As I remember, it was rarely taught. Instead, we were taught rules. First, rules of conduct about what not to do on dates or around people of the opposite gender. Second, rules of conduct about what to do to ensure that we did not fall under God's wrath. (Later, I would learn how opposite this was for many of us who had already been baptized and thus rescued from the wrath of God.)

If God's love was addressed, it was always secondary to the atonement--God sent Jesus to die for your sins because a death was necessary to atone for sin. It was God's transaction to bring me home. It was almost as if, in creating humanity, there had been a subtle flaw that, once exposed by sin, now needed to be corrected, and Jesus was simply the correction. Love took a backseat to all of this.

Imagine my surprise when, through listening to the "Free At Least" CD for a couple of the hit songs, I was captured by the catchiness of the song, "Luv is a Verb." In this song, love is described as an action. The notion that love is just a feeling is dismissed by the sacrifice of Jesus, sung about as an act of love. It was because of Jesus' love for us that he died for us. It was because of God's love for us that he worked out this plan with his son to redeem us.

Yet, for someone like myself who was so accustomed to thinking about God, the gospel, and the sacrifice of Jesus in terms of God’s solving of a problem, it still didn’t occur to me that such an act of sacrifice had anything to do with love, or even that it was love. I understood the song to be about our response as Christians, who have received eternal life because of Jesus’ sacrifice. We share that message by loving others.

After all, I was the one who was processing my high school years through feelings, learning love by how I treated others, or how they treated me. I was the one who understood my relationship with God very transactionally. I had obligations to God. He created the plan of salvation, Jesus died for me, I believed this and was baptized into Jesus, and now I had to live up to the standards God called me to. It was still very much about me, my efforts, and what I was able to do for God. I felt love for God when I obeyed him. If I didn’t obey, I didn’t love. My love for God was expressed by my obedience. My love was duty-bound, always needing to be proven. I took the idea that love was a verb and made a program out of it, a to-do list. Obedience, for me, continued to be based on fear and performance. Love was something for others.

Maybe some of you identify with this. Perhaps you have spent time in a strict, fear-based church, where the emphasis was on the wrath of God and the danger of hell. Lessons and sermons pushed you towards obedience not on the basis of a loving relationship with God but on the basis of an eternity in hell for disobedience. But you struggled, and, maybe, still struggle, with fear, questions and doubt. When praying, you question whether you have asked forgiveness for every sin. You attend every meeting of the church, lest Jesus return while you a meeting was going on and you were not there. This, despite the promised security for those who trust in God’s deliverance. This, despite John’s teaching that perfect love casts out fear.

Where is the love?

Others may have been raised in a performance-related church. The goodness and grace of God was taught more frequently, but in an effort to help people not get carried away personal performance was always emphasized. Daily habits of Bible reading and prayer produced guilt if you realized you had not accomplished them. Church meetings were placed as the highest priority, even over family gatherings and potential gatherings with non-Christians. The result: you became worn out, tired, and wondering what all the work was accomplishing.

Where is the love?

Maybe neither of these scenarios describe you, perhaps because you grew up in a non-religious family, not going to church but learning the same lessons. Perhaps you know what it is to fear, and to obey out of fear. Perhaps you were ashamed, and you hid your faults, putting only your best forward, because acceptance was based on not making mistakes and on doing the will of the father. Or maybe you grew up in a household where your best was never enough. There was always something greater to pursue, another athletic contest to win, another school team to be joined, a better grade to be had. It is draining to do your best but still feel that your best is not good enough!

Where is the love?

Despite listening to the song, love for me was very much a feeling. It was an emotion. It was disconnected from the gospel, from God’s plan of salvation. All that was a transaction, merely requiring my obedience as one gear in the machine. I learned my perception of love from my family and friends--that love was based my ability to please them. It was not unconditional. It was conditional, conditioned by their acceptance of me. So I would respond in one of two ways--out of fear, withholding who I really was so they would not reject me; or by performing even more, seeking to gain their approval by what I did. (Now, I do not mean that this is how it really was; only that is how I perceived it at the time.)

I identified with the emotional side of love, as found in a relational high when a particular girl said yes to a date, and found in a relational low when the same girl said no to a second date. I found the same emotional high towards teachers when I received an “A” on exam due to the hard work I had put in for prep, and the same emotional low when I received a “C,” because the teacher was out to trick us or out to get me specifically. There was no baseline to how I understood love.

Around this time I was really into new Bibles and different translations. I was reasonably set on being a preacher and I enjoyed reading in different translations. I heard about a new one called the New Living Translation, so I went and bought a copy. It was a nice hardcover, and I spent some time thinking about which book I would read first. I made the mistake of picking Romans, and on a day off from work in the summer, I sat down to read Romans. I went into it understanding all of this, that love was a feeling and the gospel was a transaction. I understood what Paul wrote in Romans 5 when he was discussing the death of Christ, where he made an analogy between human behavior and Christ’s behavior.

I identified with the concern for sin in chapters 1 and 2. After all, who doesn’t want to see the disobedient get what they deserve! Isn’t that why we scrupulously try to do everything right? I was a little uneasy with Paul’s condemnation of the Jews for thinking they could do enough. I found myself in that category too often, trying to please God. But I skipped past it pretty easily because his point in chapter 3 is that all sinned. We can’t earn God’s favor on our own because of that sin. All are wicked. All deserve death. I was okay with that. I knew from personal experience that I fit this category. And I knew what Paul taught in chapter 4 was the truth--it was the faith of Abraham that made him right with God.

All of this I knew. I knew that we could not save ourselves. That’s what the death of Jesus was for. That’s what baptism was about. That was grace. But it was still a transaction. Love was just a feeling. I really identified with what Paul said in chapter 5: “For one will scarcely die for a righteous person--though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die” (7). The thought of dying for a person, standing in for them, depended directly on their value to me. “A righteous person? I can’t top that. They’re better than I am. But a good person? I’m good...at times. I may be better than they are. That may be a substitution I could make.”

And it was all emotional. It was comparative. It was based on the moment. If I was “good enough” today, what about tomorrow? What about yesterday? Would such a substitution happen because of love?

But it was verse eight that really got me. It was verse eight that provided the breakthrough: “but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” I already knew this, but I didn’t. I knew it in part. I knew it intellectually, but not emotionally. I didn’t know it spiritually. I knew that Christ died for me, a sinner. But the connection Paul makes is so much more than that--while I was a sinner, Christ died for me. For Paul, this death, on behalf of those who did not deserve it and could not possibly have earned it, is a sign of God’s love.

More than that, it’s a demonstration of God’s love. Love is a verb. It is an action. It is an action done perfectly by God to demonstrate what love really is--the all consuming, all encompassing, sacrificial love of God. For us. God shows his love for us. God shows his love for us. God shows his love for us.

Think about these things. God shows his love for us. Love is a verb. It is an action. It is something that God did. The death of Jesus for sin was not something that happened so we could transact our salvation with God. It was a physical demonstration of God’s love.

God shows his love for us. It was God’s love. God chose to act. It was his choice, his desire to bridge the gap between us and him. It was his plan of salvation.

God shows his love for us. It was for us. God’s love was for us. It wasn’t random. It wasn’t a love thrown out for whoever might pick it up. It was purposeful love, for his people, to redeem those who had been lost.

In Luke 15, Jesus told three stories about things that were lost--a sheep, a coin, and a boy. In each case, the one who had lost went to great lengths to find what had been lost. And when what was lost was found, there was great rejoicing! God showed his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

This demonstration of love goes deeper. Paul goes on. Since we have been justified by his blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God. This act of grace, this demonstration of love, means a greater hope for us! God rejoices in our salvation, he loves us despite of our sin, and he calls us to rejoice in Jesus.

We have received reconciliation. We are reconciled. Through Jesus. Because of God’s love. As a result of God’s love. As a result of God’s action. We no longer need to keep checking off our lists. We can let go of fear. We no longer need to wonder if we’ve done enough. We no longer need to keep trying and trying and trying. We can let go of doubt. In the gospel, we have the statement of God’s saving love for us. And that is enough. The love of God, free to all. Love is truly a verb.
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Sermon Notes: Amos 8 and Romans 12:1-2

9/19/2013

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Sermon notes that will help you think about worship ahead of Sunday.

Amos 8 and Romans 12:1-2

Our culture teaches us to be consumers, to ask "What's in it for me?" If something doesn't suit us, we move on.
  • brand loyalty is gone
  • sound bytes rule the day, trying to catch us with a pithy saying rather than substance (politics)
  • even in the workplace, workers are encouraged to view themselves as "free agents" who go to the next best thing

This WIIFM mentality creeps even into the church, creating a breed of spiritual consumers who go "church shopping."
  • brand loyalty has disappeared when it comes to churches
  • churches are often in a situation where they must compete with bigger, more attractive churches or get used to becoming smaller and smaller
  • spirituality and growth and maturity are not seen as signs of health, but bigger buildings, larger attendance, newer ministries and growing budgets are seen as the signs of success

Meanwhile, the result is that no roots are put down by people, no consistency is established, and much time and money is spent in the Kingdom of God not growing or advancing the kingdom, but competing within the kingdom for attendance and budgets.

The greater loss is in the life of the people who claim to follow God but are really using God to benefit themselves. Rather than serving God and others with the giftedness God has given them, they selfishly use other people and other churches for their own use and then discard them when they are done.

Although this spiritual consumerism approach is a major problem for us today, it is not unique to us. If we look all the way back in the Old Testament, in Amos, we see that many operated the same way.
  • During Amos' time, the nation of Israel was strong and prosperous. They had every reason to believe they would be successful and that their success was because God was blessing them. This led them to pride...and to sin, because the blessings continued even as small sins crept in, which gave way to more sin, until outright disdain for God became the norm.
  • Let us not forget that the path to impurity begins small...then grows, until we are so far gone we don't realize it. And though many of us would say that honoring and worshiping God is important to us, how many of us would find ourselves asking the same questions as the Israelites?
  • When will the New Moon be over so we may sell grain?
  • When will the Sabbath be done so we can market wheat?
  • When will Bible study be over so I can return this phone call?
  • When will church be over so I can get to lunch?
  • When will this sermon be done so I can get to the football game?
  • In Israel's case, the people were like ripe fruit, they were ready to be judged (1-2).
  • Amos identifies the reason as this: they abused and neglected the poor and needy (4).
  • Even worse, they did this for their own benefit, and at God's expense (5-6)--they skimped on the measure, they boosted the price by cheating with dishonest scales, taking advantage of the poor and breaking the law (selling the sweepings; no gleaning possible) to do so.
  • As a result, there would be punishment. God promised to bring a famine, but not a famine of food or water. Instead, he would bring a famine of his word. God would be absent to them; there would be no guidance, no leading word from him.
This passage is a passage that demands we ask of ourselves what true and pure worship is. How do we see ourselves in this?
  • Do we view worship in a technical and transactional way? 5 acts; focus on attendance; etc., as though when we do these things, God is happy, regardless of how we live our lives, so that we believe our grudges, prejudices, and sinful behaviors and attitudes towards people are okay because we have pleased God?
  • Or we view worship more in a way in line with Paul's teaching in Romans 12 about a transformed life, offering ourselves as living sacrifices to God?
  • How we treat people matters. How we worship God matters. 
  • Let us take the "sweepings of our lives," not selling them to the highest bidder to enhance our own lives, but to give back to God, to leave them for others, to offer ourselves to God in our very lives, to make ourselves sacrifices for the sake of others.
  • Let us hear the word of judgment this morning and repent, and allow it to become a word of hope. Not hope for ourselves, but hope for others, as we end the God-famine they are experiencing by graciously sharing from God's abundance with them.
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Bible Study Guide for October 7-13, 2012

10/4/2012

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This Sunday's sermon will be from Joshua 7, focusing on the dangers of disobedience and incurring the wrath of God. Obedience is not optional. The study questions are from Joshua 7 and Romans.
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Bible Study Guide for April 15-21, 2012

4/12/2012

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This study guide contains questions from Romans 8 (Sunday morning sermon) and Malachi 1:6-2:9 (Sunday evening sermon).
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Bible Study Guide for April 1-7, 2012

3/29/2012

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Questions are from Romans 6:1-14 and 1 Peter 3:18-22, with an emphasis on grace and baptism.
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Bible Study Guide for February 19-25, 2012

2/16/2012

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This study guide contains questions from Ephesians 4:1-16 (morning sermon) and Nehemiah 8:1-10 (evening sermon). Because the passage from Ephesians includes teaching about the purpose of grace-gifts to the church, I also included questions from 1 Corinthians 12 and Romans 12.
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Devotional Guide for October 16-22, 2011 / Baptism

10/13/2011

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This is the devotional guide for October 16-22, 2011. In it, I've focused on the theme of baptism. As you go through this week, you'll learn both why we are baptized and what happens when we are baptized.
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Family Devotional Guide / The Mission of God Part 2

6/16/2011

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The theme for this guide is how we participate in God's mission: what does God expect and desire from us? Readings, questions and prayer foci are from Psalm 119:49-72, Acts 8:1-4, Romans 12:9-21, Hebrews 13:1-3, and Matthew 25:31-46.

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Funeral Sermon: More Than Conquerors

11/2/2010

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This is a funeral sermon I preached yesterday for a dear sister who passed away into the grace of God over the weekend.

Text: Romans 8:18-39

We gather this morning to remember a good friend, a mother, a mother-in-law, a Christian, a daughter of Christ. And though we know inwardly that death is part of the fabric of life, we do not look forward to it nor do we celebrate in it. Even though we testify that something greater remains for those who are in Christ, yet we struggle when it comes time to release our friends and family into the presence of our Lord.

The apostle Paul is aware of this and in our reading from Romans reminds us not to get too far ahead of ourselves and reject the very real suffering we do experience. And we do experience suffering. Yet, he says that this present suffering is not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. So while there is suffering, and sadness, and pain, there is also a light, and hope that we can hold onto in remembrance and with a view towards future glory. But I will return to this...

...because Paul continues meditating on the theme of suffering. He points to the creation, the world around us. The world around us announces its own decay. In this way it is a sign of what is to be for us. There is a large willow tree bordering the property that the church owns. It is an old tree, and in wind or ice storms branches will often fall out of the tree. In worse cases, entire limbs will fall out. This tree is old; it is decaying and dying. Such is the way of life, and such is the example that creation gives to us.

But embedded within creation is a glimmer of hope. In the autumn season, which we are in now, trees appear to die as they lose their leaves. Plants and flowers wither. Grass turns an ugly shade and stops growing. Yet this is only temporary. After a period of time, autumn turns into winter and winter turns into spring, and everything begins to grow once more. Trees blossom; flowers bloom; and grass regains its color. This is a sign of the hope to come.

But in the meantime, we groan. This is the word Paul uses to describe the decay of the creation around us. This is the word the apostle Paul chooses to describe the inner angst we feel that things are just not right. It seems that even when things are rolling for us, when we are at the top of our game--or even the world--that something within us...well, groans. We groan because we know things are just not right. We groan when we see death around us because it is opposite of what our feelings are--we do not want people taken from us, though we know they pass on to the grace of God; and we do not like endings, though we know that behind every Christian ending is a new beginning. So we groan.

But our groaning indicates that there is more than what we experience. We groan also because we know that God is calling us to more...but we wait while this “more” takes time to filter down to us.

And in the meantime, our groaning is done in hope. If it is our hope that saves us, that allows us to cast off once and for all this groaning, when do we experience that salvation? Surely we have the firstfruits of that salvation now, but we will not fully experience until we, too, have passed through death. Hope that is seen, after all, is no hope at all. So we must wait patiently for this hope to be made known among us.

Yet, while we wait, we root our hope in the Spirit of God that dwells within us. It is the Spirit through whom we share in the spiritual firstfruits. Now, firstfruits is an agricultural word that describes the very first, the freshest, the newest of the harvest. It is a forebearer of what is to come. And because we know that much, much more is to come, we celebrate at the firstfruits we experience and share, as a sign of the greater things that will be.

And more than this, the Spirit helps us in our weakness! When we are weak, we are strong. When we are sad, we are happy. When we don’t know what or how to pray, the Spirit prays for us! And because God and the Spirit are in agreement, we come to agree with God through the Spirit!

So we are not alone in our grief and suffering. The Spirit of God travels with us, enlightening us, praying for us, and allowing us to share now in what we will share eternally! Thus we learn that in all things God works for the good of those who love. How can death be good? How can separation be good? How can decay be good? Because we know, through our experience of the Spirit among us, that these things are only signs of the end. We know that God has worked to defeat death. We know that God will bring more to us than we can ever imagine or bring ourselves.

God has called us for his purpose. He is in the process of conforming us. And he will change us. God is at work among us and through us so that even the painful process of death, and the grief and suffering that come with it, will not be all there is! He holds us together, he brings us together, he gathers us together as his people. As Paul says, “If God is for us, who can be against us?” No one! There IS no one to condemn us! There IS no one to bring charges against us, because we belong to God! There is nothing or no one to fear in death.

Though it sure feels hard right now, this is our reality. We are truly more than conquerors through--and because of--God who loves us. “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

It is not without cause that the first word used by Paul to describe what we have conquered is death. Because of Christ, death has become not the end but a phase, or stop, in our journey. Through Christ we have overcome death because we have entered into the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. It is this love, the love of God that finds full expression in the life--and death--of Jesus, that we release our sister into today. She has gone ahead of us, experiencing fully the salvation of which we share only in the firstfruits. But her hope has been realized, and stands as a sign for us today to never give in, never allow the groaning we experience or the fears and anxieties that we have to get their foot in the door. Because we have Christ. And we have God’s love. And nothing can separate us from these truths.
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Bible Study Guide: Romans

10/28/2010

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This guide, including a commentary and overview of Romans along with 25 study questions, is for our Sunday morning bible study on November 7. Please download this and use it as you read Romans during November 1-7.
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